Friday, August 06, 2010

When Venus meets Venus

It’s always been said that men are from Mars and Women from Venus but what happens when Venus meets Venus?

At times just when you think you know what’s happening with your life and you sit back and let it just flow, you are awakened by some unexpected force. I remember the first time I was swept off my feet; I was looking around for this man that will appear and just steal my heart, little did I know that destiny had other ideas for me. When my knight in shining armour appeared she had on tight jeans, lip gloss, her skin so soft and hands so soft and tiny and here I am years later still into women and loving it.

“Have you ever felt like you’ve met the woman of your dreams? A woman who fits your dreams like a glove, makes you smile even when there’s no one around? Makes your heart beat faster when you think about them? How often do we meet these amazing creatures? And when you meet one, what do you do when all odds are against the two of you?”

“Do you put your life in the hands of fate and hope that things will work out or do you take the bull by its horns and set your own destiny?” I’m no expect when it comes to love but I know that when you meet that woman that captures your heart, nothing else will make sense until you have her in your arms.

I’ve always said that in life we make decisions everyday that affect us and at times you don’t have to know whether the decision is right or wrong, you just have to follow your heart. Most times the heart leads you in the right path whereas if you use your head, you might start thinking about a lot of what ifs and end up not making that decision. The problem is making that jump, that jump that will either kill you or free you.

It is not an easy thing making a decision especially when it will affect not only you but those around you too, but do you let go of what could be the best love you’ve ever felt so that you can spare others from heartache? I don’t know. Sometimes being selfish is the only way to go but when you have a kind heart that puts others before yourself, taking the plunge seems so painful. You think of everyone except yourself and your happiness.

These are the times when you wish you could hide your head in the sand and not take responsibility for your own life. See, making this decision will not guarantee you a happy ever after but shying away from making it will only leave you with more questions than answers. You will always have those could haves, would haves. But what do you do when your heart abandons you and falls in the hands of this wonderful, beautiful stranger? When you try so hard to use your head and your heart gets in the way and wants her so bad?

Finding love is rare but fear always threatens to lose you the opportunity of love beyond your wildest dreams. Sometimes all we can do in life is make sure we live without regrets no matter how our choices turn out.

3 comments:

Tu said...

What you've posted is beyond a question of "Venus meets Venus," but a question about love that's fundamental to all people, gay or straight, which is great. I think often times the straight people around us forget that gay men and women share some heart wrenching issues. Now, for your question about love, what you've written is not a simple do I go for love or do I not. We can go for the plunge if the person on the other end reciprocates, but what if she doesn't? When do we or where do we draw the line between obsession and love?

Tu said...

What you've posted is beyond a question of "Venus meets Venus," but a question about love that's fundamental to all people, gay or straight, which is great. I think often times the straight people around us forget that gay men and women share some heart wrenching issues. Now, for your question about love, what you've written is not a simple do I go for love or do I not. We can go for the plunge if the person on the other end reciprocates, but what if she doesn't? When do we or where do we draw the line between obsession and love?

Anonymous said...

When venus meets venus only beautiful things can happen,venus is after all,the goddess of love..being a believer inlove,i think when u find someone who moves u so much that u cant function without them,then take the plunge or ul live the rest of your life with regret.i also believe in living your truth,lying to yourself is one thing,lying to the rest of the world is another,it may seem selfish to follow your heart,but if the alternative is living your life in misery with someone you don't belong with..ofcos there is alot to consider,but consider this;u waking up next to a person you dont love for ever,wishing for someone else...is that fair to u or ur partner?...mpho k.

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